Love Me Sew

A beginner's guide to sewing your own clothes

If you've ever wished you could just make a thing that fits — a top that doesn't gape at the chest, jeans that aren't four inches too long, a tea dress in a fabric the shop never stocks — sewing your own clothes is a real path to that. It's also, despite what some Instagram makers might imply, not very hard to start. Most of the friction is in the first three projects. After that, it's reps.

This guide is for someone who has never threaded a sewing machine. By the end of it you should know what to buy, what to make first, and roughly how long any of it takes.

The four skills that do most of the work

Pretty much every beginner garment uses the same four skills, again and again:

  1. Straight stitch — your machine in its default setting. This joins fabric to fabric.
  2. Backstitching — reverse for a few stitches at the start and end of every seam so it doesn't unravel.
  3. Pressing — using an iron to set seams open or to one side as you go. This is the difference between a garment that looks home-made and one that looks bought.
  4. Sewing a hem — folding the raw edge twice and stitching it down so it stops fraying.

That's it for the first project. You will not need to know how to set a zip, sew darts, or do any of the things that scare beginners off the internet. Those come later.

What to buy first

A starter kit, in order of importance:

You don't need an overlocker (serger) for the first six months. You don't need a fancy embroidery machine. You don't need £200 of fabric for a tote bag.

The first project — a simple tote

Everyone wants to start with a dress. We'd suggest a tote bag. It's four straight seams, no fitting, and at the end you have a real object you can use. The skills (straight stitch, backstitch, pressing, hem) are exactly the four you'll need for clothing later, and a wonky tote does not look noticeably wonky in real life. A wonky dress, alas, does.

Picking a beginner garment pattern

Once you've got a project or two under your belt, look at indie sewing-pattern designers — Sew Over It, Tilly and the Buttons, Closet Core, and Cashmerette all publish beginner-friendly patterns with clear instructions. Avoid anything labelled "intermediate" or "advanced" for your first three garments, no matter how much you love the design.

Beginner-friendly garment shapes: an elasticated-waist skirt, a simple tee in jersey, a relaxed-fit smock dress. Garments that are not beginner-friendly despite how often they're recommended: anything fitted at the bust, anything with a separate collar, anything with a fly.

Choosing fabric

Most beginner patterns assume "medium-weight woven cotton" — quilting cotton, cotton poplin, or chambray. These are easy to handle, don't shift around under the machine, and press nicely with an iron. Avoid silk, satin, chiffon, and stretchy knits for your first three garments. They're not harder to sew; they're just harder to cut, which is half the battle.

How long does any of this take?

Honest numbers, assuming you have all the materials and a sewing space:

The cutting takes longer than the sewing for the first six months. This is normal and not a sign anything is going wrong.

The thing nobody tells you

Your first garment will be wearable. Your third garment will be good. Your tenth garment will start to fit better than anything you've bought from a high-street shop, because you'll have actually measured yourself and made small adjustments (taken in the waist, lengthened a sleeve, shortened the bodice) that mass-produced clothes can't.

The trick is just getting to garment three. Most people stop at garment one because something didn't go right and they assumed they couldn't sew. They could. They just needed two more goes.